My 2004 deville passenger side mirror keep moving I set my seats set my mirrors everything is fine. But when I hit the remote to open the doors the passenger mirror wants to move around

Is there a way to just turn seat memory off completely?

 

Unfortunately not. Memory follows remote so use the same one and set your preferences to it. Owners manual will have details.

 

This gives me fits as well... drivers mirror drops and turns a bit... I've reset it several times.

I also had the "drop mirror in reverse" settign on for a while, great idea, but it never came back UP.